man those guys are fuckin douche-bags, they just added a third page to their "look at how stupid i am" article.
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UPDATE: Privacy settings
With thanks to the several e-mails, in particular the one out of a dozen that didn't just hurl abuse, we'd like to point out that there IS is way to adjust these privacy settings between everyone, friends only or no-one at all.
The options to change the privacy settings can be accessedby selecting your gamer profile whilst in the Xbox LIVE blade and then editing your profile. Whilst this provides the degree of privacy many users may well want, it is the opinion of the Team HEXUS that these options should be an 'opt-in' option not an 'opt-out'.
I can't how many people know jack shit about the 360, and complain about shit before they bother to learn.