yeah if the parts guy at your local dealer sucks then just take your business to another dealer... I don't know why they complain so much when it's trivial to look up parts... they must not want money or something.
another place to find parts is http://car-part.com
it's a national junk yard search... I've found many hard to find parts for dirt cheap, just don't be afraid to use the phone to call some po-dunk autosalvage place across the country.
not sure how many MY09 parts you'll find but I'm sure somebody has crashed a few yarii at this point