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[AfterTheInsanity]

So, I found out my girlfriend does tabs. I saw my ex on them once, and she was practically dying. It was horrifying. So now I hate the idea of my current girlfriend doing tabs, but Im not the kind of person to say 'youre not allowed to do them' because Id probably find out she did them behind my back and that would make things worse.

Does anyone have any experience using them? Maybe Im concerned about nothing, but Im really upset about it, and shes gone to bed so I cant talk to her about it. I smoke and drink occassionally, but its just tabs that I dont like.

[xbox_newbie]

alright so i guess im gunna be the one who says it...?


wtf are tabs?

[AfterTheInsanity]

Methylenedioxymethamphetamine

[throwingks]

If she does it behind your back after you talk to her about it, then you guys have issues. In a relationship you should be able to talk about anything. If you can't, it's not a good relationship.

You owe it to her to talk to her and tell her how you feel. And, she owes it to you to have a listen.

Try to come up with something you can both live with.

For me, it would be, "drugs or me. You pick." Then let her decide. But, that is just me. You find your own compromise.

[AfterTheInsanity]

See, its not all drugs that I dont like. Just tabs. Ive yet to figure out the exact reason, but I have my ideas. But basically, it probably will be the 'tabs or me' thing. And youre right, if she does it behind my back, then thats a huge mistrust issue, and it probably wont last long after that.

[Modderxtrordanare]

I thought you were talking about Bass or something at first.

[xboxhackern00b]

i thought you were talking about the old soft drink :X

[deadparrot]

So long as she's using them in Firefox and not IE 7...

[_iffy]

See, its not all drugs that I dont like. Just tabs. Ive yet to figure out the exact reason, but I have my ideas.

First thing you should do before you talk to her about it, is figure out the exact reason. If you can't say why you don't like it, she will never stop for you.

Second is she habitual, like every week or something, or is it enviroment where she'll only drop when at a party?

e is the one drug i recomend everyone trys once. (only recomend once). It has a way of making people aware of how much of a jerk they are. Then they try, or do make changes to become better people.


AfterTheInsanity, if she is an abuser of the drug then get her off them or walk away. If she is casual about them, then she will stop if you ask her. (asumming she cares about you) Either way you have to tell her how you feel otherwise nothing will change.

"A problem will stay a problem unless you try to fix it."
-me

First thing you should do is figure out why you don't like her doing it. "just 'cause" isn't good enough to convince her. Second you should talk to her and tell her how you feel about it. But don't forget though that there's worse things she could be doing.

This post has been edited by _iffy: Sep 10 2006, 03:32 PM

[Rylinkus]

alright so i guess im gunna be the one who says it...?
wtf are tabs?

[killerbootsman]

I thought it was about loritabs. I was close.

[AfterTheInsanity]

First thing you should do before you talk to her about it, is figure out the exact reason. If you can't say why you don't like it, she will never stop for you.

Second is she habitual, like every week or something, or is it enviroment where she'll only drop when at a party?

e is the one drug i recomend everyone trys once. (only recomend once). It has a way of making people aware of how much of a jerk they are. Then they try, or do make changes to become better people.
AfterTheInsanity, if she is an abuser of the drug then get her off them or walk away. If she is casual about them, then she will stop if you ask her. (asumming she cares about you) Either way you have to tell her how you feel otherwise nothing will change.

"A problem will stay a problem unless you try to fix it."
-me

First thing you should do is figure out why you don't like her doing it. "just 'cause" isn't good enough to convince her. Second you should talk to her and tell her how you feel about it. But don't forget though that there's worse things she could be doing.

Great advice, you're a very wise person. She only does them before the school dances, so shes not habitual. I was going to buy a hit or two tomorrow, but after speaking with some friends of mine who were heavy into them, I was convinced not to. I talked to her tonight about it, explained how much I didnt like them and why, and gave her the option. Tabs, or me. She said she chose me, so we'll see how this turns out.

[alemerson]

thats sounds like the right path. im glad this is working out for you


(isn't it funny how everyone's lives seem to eraticate themselves in the xbox-scene dump? )

[Arjun]

Damn man...that's crazy.
And no, I don't believe you are concerned about nothing. You have every right to be concerened and to interfere. That stuff isn't meant to be played with. You can actually die from it. Talk to her for her sake man.

[vestri_matris]

So long as she's using them in Firefox and not IE 7...

lol it may b the fact im super tired but thanks for the laugh

edit: first of all, i admit, i had to go look up what tabs were. Its weird though cuz here. in minnesota, LSD is almost non-existant. I dont think i know almost anyone who does it often, if they've done it at all. Its mostly weed and meth here... yep thats my rant

This post has been edited by vestri_matris: Sep 11 2006, 03:19 AM