QUOTE(iwanttheagrocrag @ Jul 13 2009, 02:57 PM)

Lol, I was playing Gta yesterday and we were in a party of 4 or 5 and we were trying to start a game but all the other people were on our team so it was gonna be a 8 on like 2. So i went to party an switched to game chat and started telling people that the game need even teams, I may have swore and called them inbred. And like 2 or 3 little kids were like "those are some pretty bad words" I'm like what your playing an ADULT game were you kill people how much worse can swearing be. I was so mad because there is always a little kid in any game you play on Gta, and if Im playing a game solely based on killing, its gonna be an ADULT game and i should be able to cuss like a sailor all i want.
It just shows like this little girl that got abducted a few weeks back, the parentw didn't give a s*** about were this girl was they just let here loose, this is basically what these parents do that let kids play Gta. Same thing a Halo 3 if your in Big team there is always a little kid playing and i always ask (after everyone take there dig at him or his mom) How old are you and were is you parents aren't you supposed to be doing something else than playing a very competitive killing game.
Something that actually does something for there brain not just gets them out of your face.
Fair enough perspective, but there's a few things I'd like to point out:
1) GTA isn't solely based on killing. In fact, I steal way more cars than I do kill people in it.
2) Just because a game has cussing in it, doesn't mean you should excessively cuss. Personally, if you annoy me, I just mute you, but that's me.
And just how little were these kids we're talkin' about? Moreso than that, perhaps the parents have already evaluated the game, and have a different approach. For example, when I was a kid, we all cussed anyway, but we had respect for the right adults that we shouldn't cuss around, so I really don't care if my son cusses, just so long that he doesn't go sounding like a potty mouth to pepole (cuss appropriately, if there is such a thing).
Game-wise, I'm not too concerned about violence. GTA's violence still has an 'animated' feel to it in general. It's the dialogue in the game that I won't let my child play it, because the dialogue is more applicable to generic situations, and is effectively a "language teacher", so to speak. Violence, however, is harder for a child to mimic, especially when it's done through a controller. I'm not saying that violence doesn't need moderation or anything, I'm just saying it's not the only bad (after all, I grew up watching the most violent of cartoons and movies, yet I'm a very nonviolent person).