ok, real real stupid question...but does it matter if i get tiny bit of solder on the tracks??
would it just cross all connections or what??

probably would cut across connnetions

well then i'm screwed with this gray wire on the x2 lite.

You should be able to clean with a knife, desolder, and if you've got rid of a point you can make an alternative one.

Explain what you've done, and maybe indicate it by getting a picture of a mobo and editing it ... and I'm sure people will help.

I've screwed up, and fixed my mobo in this way (damaged a solder point)