3 boxes and MANY hours later...it worked! Here it goes..... 1st no flux at RS so I tried it without. Mistake, lifted solder point off bottom d0 and couldn't get it to stick to topside (yep, noob with shit for soldering skills). Next box, got flux, desoldering braid and desoldering bulb, desoldering braid worked for shit and bulb matched performance of braid. Couldn't get that damn braid to lift any solder at all so while trying to burn that solder out with the gun and use the bulb to get it out, lifted trace on board, somehow, don't ask me how (at least I think thats what I did because from the bottom it looked like a trace and when i moved it back, it fell off). SO I put the header in anyhow and the box would work normal but not with mod selected on. NOW, the next day with yet another box (don't ask if I own many or what the deal is with these

), i used the wire adapter which I didn't want to do because I didn't trust my skills to solder it on, but again I couldn't get that goddamn header back out of that other shithole box. So anyhow, get home, open the box, and within 15 minutes I am done! If I had just went with the wire adapter the first time, I would have saved myself a big pain in the ass. Any noob putting one in should shit can those pin headers, just solder the wires (it is so easy) and save yourself the hassle. Finally works, love it, gonna go play.....