Is it possible to connect to xboxs directly together to transfer files between one another? I know how to connect to one xbox using an ftp, but I'm just wondering if there's a way to just connect the two boxes together and not use the pc as a go between. I looked in the tutorials and didn't see anything.

ya.. AVAlaunch has built a in built in ftp browser.. i believe u NEED a CROSSOVER cable though

there are a few dashboards that will do this
i think avalanch, XBMC will
don't know about MXM
evox will not

MUST use CROSSOVER ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

What is the program called?

'tis called - "Avalaunch".
Check this out... Avalaunch box 2 box instructions
Alternatively; type - "box to box" in search!