I have basically the same problem as this guy: http://forums.xbox-scene.com/index.php?showtopic=328685
how was that solved?

hm. maybe not. I saw his fix in his other thread but I already did that. Heres my thread: http://www.teamxlink.co.uk/forum/viewtopic.php?p=40253#40253

Edit your posts instead of posting twice in a row. If you posted at the official XLink forum you'll get help there.

right, sorry, well I fixed it.
check my other thread if your having the same problem, it was just me not knowing how to properly port forward, or read directions on port forwarding.

Yepp, that's why you don't have to post it both in the official forum and here. Well, since it's fixed I say we can close this one.