ok i can connecct find my consol but when i join a game on my xbox i cant join it it just sais try again later or something. and this is probly useless because none even is here and noone helps anyone and noones going to even look at this and if they do there time is to preshes to read it. and if you reply your probly going to just say hey look i read it you wwere wrong and i will never play my xbox.

Alrighty, calm down, first make sure you have allowed your firewalls to let XBC through, also try doing just a general power cycle and refinding your xbox

power cycle being:
-turn off pc, xbox, router,modem etc
-wait a minute
-power on modem
-power on router/switch
-power on pc
-power on xbox

refind it and try again, if it doesnt work it's probably a firewall or something like that, also make sure you're joining low pinged games