So im sitting c*ck in hand xbox open and ready and trying to find this "two wire trick", any clues??

How about pg 39 of the tutorial HERE

Don't do it...

Also, What page of the tut mentions having your c*ck in your hand?

I recommend trying the Slax CD method for your Hitachi Drive (I'm assuming you have a Hitachi drive, as you would not need to get your Drive into mode B if you have a Samsung) and if that doesn't work... buy an Xecutor Connectivity Kit or the Xeno Connectivity Kit. While the Cross-wire trick might seem simple, (which it very well may be to some people), you can brick your Hitachi quite easily with this method. My advice would be to have a bit more patience and to take some time to read every tutorial you can find, (from this site and elsewhere); and cross check all of the information you find. There's a lot of misleading information out there, and I doubt that you want a bricked drive due to your haste.

You may have to wait a few days to get your connectivity kit, but it is well worth it to avoid the crossed-wires method if you can help it.

I have the Hitachi 47DJ drive and its connected to my PC right now. I guess I will try the slax method.

so tut tells me to press reset button on pc when slax is done.. what if it doesnt have one??

I tried CTRL-ALT-DELETE but that didnt work.. still didnt notice the drive.

Then that would mean, your mobo / adapter is not compatable.