Been at it for hours on ened now.
Laptop and Xbox hard wired into D-Link 604+ router (broadband connection goes into this as well)
Turned off firewalls. No anti-virus running (as far as I know). Port forwarded 30000.
Kai UI showing network as reachablebut cannot get my Xbox detected. Have tried going into system link on both Forza and Halo 2 but no games showing (I assuume that just going into system link = "searching for games").
I know that the Xbox is on my network as I can access online stuff (imdb/apple movie trailers etc) through XBMC.
I have tried getting Kai to work through the Laptop alone (Normal Kai Use) and also through XBMC (Engine only (for dashboards) but same problem with both - console not detected.
I get 2 messages when I boot up Kai - that a D-Link wirless adapter is not compatible (but I am not using the wireless card in this laptop - connect through onboard Intel NIC) and that the microsoft tv/video adpater is not compatible - no idea what this is on about!
Any suggestions most welcome as this is driving me CRAZY. I have figured everything out on the Xbox eventually but this one has me well and truly stumped........