Well I finally got my box back to retail AND got UnleashX installed everything was going great and then I installed a few apps emulators mostly and rebooted now it is stuck on the unleashx load screen and wont go further here is the funny thing though I would go in and ftp to delete what I put in BUT I can't get it to load the Slayers disc but it will still load copied games..............any ideas

Try making another Slayers disk as it could be just a bad burn.
Also did you burn the Slayer's iso On a DVD or CD? If on a CD then reburn onto a DVD as most Xbox's have trouble reading burned cd's.
You might try searching for Cash 1.1 as this is a softmod utilty disk, whereas Slayers is really designed as a Mod chip utility disk. Either one should give you FTP access, but Cash will give you some very useful softmod recovery tools.

Good luck!!!